The Right One
Recently, someone asked me, "How do you know it's the right one?" That got me thinking. See, for someone who hasn't found a non-imaginary answer to that yet, it's tough to say. But then, I figured in my brainstorming that we probably never know the answer to that. But we do know which are not the right ones. We eliminate those through trial and error. Now, don't get me wrong here. I am not someone who believes in broken relationships or breakups. But it is sometimes that we realise who is wrong after we get to know them. When I say "wrong", it usually doesn't mean "wrong"; it means "not right". No person is wrong in their own place. It just means they aren't right for you. I figured we can easily categorise that, rather than what or who is right. The most perfect ones, who say what you want to hear and do what you want to be done, should be the first to be wiped off your list. Because either they are absolutely faking it to impress you, or they don't have an identity themselves to stand up for and make choices with. Either one won't work in the long term. The wrong ones give you butterfly feelings and sweep you off your feet almost instantly. The right ones say what they feel, even if their views differ. Someone right for you doesn't try to impress you. That's about it. And here you go, the girl who wanted me to share this. I hope it helps.
~ Suranya
