I have often heard that am obsessed with happy endings. But I wonder. What is truly that One story like? A love that culminates into forever? Or a love that doesn't?
They say the greatest love is often incomplete like Romeo Juliet, Heer Ranjha, Laila Majnu, Sahiba Mirza and even tales from our epics like the love of Ram Sita, Kanha Radha and Shiva Sati. So where is love triumphing in those tales?Being in Love doesn't really mean you always end up together in a pitch perfect story, get married or have kids and tell your grandkids this story of your life. It means the love you feel is a happy one. It can be any kind of love, for someone, something, some place, attachment, or even yourself. The one story you carry in your heart is memories to cherish all life and not lessons, is the One Love you seek. It often means living your dream, your entire story in the littlest moments of love. Happy endings don't mean ending up together with someone. It means finding yourself in a new light in love, making yourself a better person. It means loving yourself in a new way, self improvement or fulfilling your own dreams and promises. The essence of love can be found in self independence, self love or bliss of friends and family. In work or relationships. In being with someone or distances. In one person for a lifetime or in many over a life. It's a short life to live lovelessly. And one person or relationship never defines Love. It's the easiest available human emotion. Don't let people judge you, ground you or even expect them to understand how you find your happiness in love. How you define it. It doesn't have a reason. It happens. It is magic, if you believe in it with purity of heart and souls. And in all these I realised that even history says this through love stories time and again. Samyogita Prithviraj to Pratap Ajabdeh to Shiv Sai give us relationship goals yet they remain incomplete in their own little love stories. So no matter what your reason is, who you are, where you are, or how many times it hurts; don't let others define love for you. Be a warrior in Love! Choose your happily ever after. Always love to be in Love, until you become Love itself.
~ Suranya